Jonathan said, “Go in peace! The two of us have vowed friendship in God’s name, saying, ‘God will be the bond between me and you, and between my children and your children forever!’” {1 Samuel 20:42, MSG}
When I read the Old Testament story of Jonathan and David and their deep friendship with one another, I feel as if I’m in the middle of a sweeping saga where the very best things in life stand the test of time. These men had a friendship that was fierce and unshakable. Their friendship withstood Saul’s attempts on David’s life. Watching Jonathan and David honor their promise of friendship is a constant reminder to me of the value of faithful friendship, no matter what the circumstances may be.
Lately, I’ve been noticing the friendships of women a decade, or more, ahead of me on the journey. I watch these women and I notice the way they care for one another. They bring out the best in each other. Sometimes, I watch them crossing the street downtown. They lean in, shoulders touching, eyes sparkling. They have found a treasure in one another, and that treasure has stood the test of time.
I look at these women and, if I’m not careful, I can think to myself that their friendship has been smooth sailing over all the years they’ve know each other. But, you and I both know life throws curve balls from time to time. Our friendships are not immune to the difficulties of life. Jonathan and David were well-acquainted with the struggles that threaten to drive two friends apart. While our friendships may not ever have to struggle against the impossible odds Jonathan and David did, we can use their friendship as a model for building friendships that stand the test of time.
Read the rest, at incourage.